I dont like my mil, she is rude. But is that a good enough reason to not let my son spend the night at her house? I would like them to have a relationship. But I dont want a relationship with her. I'm not sure if it's my dislike for her or my intuition telling me not to send him to her house anymore. My boyfriend wants his mom to see our son as much as she wants, which is one weekend a month. But I imagine as he gets older she’ll want more stretches of time. It's just an odd feeling to have to compromise on..I am sending my son to someone I dislike. What are your thoughts on this?