My husband and I work full-time. My 3 year old son is in part-time preschool 9am-12pm. He enjoys preschool but looks forward to coming home with our nanny (full time live-in) by 1pm, has lunch and naps for a couple of hours, plays for an hour and my husband and I are back by then. We are expecting our second one in 3 months. Our nanny keeps hinting that she may be leaving us soon. Is it early to put our 3 year old in extended care 9-5pm at his preschool? We tried it a couple of times when our nanny took sick days and he hated it. He told us multiple times that he did not like napping there and that we should come pick him up after lunch.