Number of kids
I am one of two kids and so is my husband. We have had conversations in the past and agreed that we both want 2 kids. The problem is that we have 2 boys that I totally adore BUT I can’t stop wondering if we should “try for a girl”. I love kids, I love watching my boys’ relationship grow. I know that my husband does not ever consider having another one. He has mentioned that he doesn’t know if he can handle the stress of having another since I am on the older side (38) and since our first son was a preemie. I mean pregnancy was stressful for me because of having a preemie....For anyone that has gone through this- does the feeling of uncertainty around whether not you are actually done having kids ever go away?