Partner wont help with our baby
gave birth 5 months ago now and my fiance is not helping me atol. He loses his temper so fast when she cries at night and ends up giving her back to me and storming out of the room. Ever since I had her, i've not once had a full nights sleep unless my mum takes her overnight. I know thats part of parenthood but he should help me? He sleeps everynight and then sleeps in until 12ish every day hes off work. He has never bathed her, very rarely changes or feeds her and every single time i ask for help it turns into a huge arguement. He doesnt clean up atol after himself, and moans all the time that his stuff isnt washed in time but when i left it and told him to do it himself he left it for over two months and started buying new clothes rather than washing them. Im at my witts end. I live him soo much and im trying so hard, but everytime i even tell him im going for a shower its an arguement and i feel like i need to ask to wash myself? He refuses to watch her so i can do things with family and friends but he can do what he wants when he wants. When he does sit with her, hes so good with her but it always takes so much to make it happen and im so drained. Im not sure if im just over reacting as he puts it or if its serious and a bit of postpartum? Please help.