My family and I currently live upstate NY and we’re moving to the jersey shore, we bought a beautiful house, I have a 11 10 and 3 year old- my husband is a disabled Iraqi veteran and he is really weird about making friends. I will need to get a job and I know I’ll meet people there but I haven’t worked since my baby was 6 months - I couldn’t handle it. I want to start fresh and befriend some people who aren’t into bad habits. I am terrified. I’m moving away from everything I know. Please help.