Separate parenting issues
This would be my first post on here. Really hoping to get some real insight and advice.. my daughter who just turned 10 yrs, recently started seeing her dad again. He hasn't seen her in over a yr. Anyway, my daughter tells me he has been bad mouthing me to her and saying things that aren't true. Things like me using her against him (which isn't true) . I was actually the parent trying to reach out so she can have a dad in her life. Something I strongly believe every child should have. With a few exceptions I'm sure. But in my case, my daughter means everything to me and so does her well being. Anyway, my daughter asked that I not tell him anything. She’s afraid of what he might say. He asked her not to tell me. But the truth is it’s eating at me everyday. I don't want to lose my daughter's trust, it’s so important and will be as she ages. But I'm in the torn because I want to confront him. Can anyone plz provide any advice. Thank you in advance.