Super anxious about tomorrow
MIL asked to baby sit, we have a 16 month old and 5 month old. Both require a lot of attention and can get jealous too. She wants to take them too the zoo, (it’s super hot outside so I told her I can add her to our aquarium pass for a day, she still insisted on zoo, and the forecast shows thunderstorm all this week) we asked if anyone else was gonna go with her (her fiancé, etc) she said no it’ll just be her. I don’t even go out alone with just the kids and I because it can be very demanding. She said she’ll have the double stroller. My toddler does not want to sit in it all the time she wants to walk and play and my 5 month old likes to be held after a while too. MIL says she’s raised her kids she knows how to do it. I almost don’t even want her to watch the kids now. I’ve told DH I’m uncomfortable if it’s just gonna be her and the kids alone, he’s tried to talk to her and she says the same thing. I don’t know what to say or do.