Toddler sleeping problem
I have a daughter who's about to be 4 in Dec. Every night it takes her about an hour to an hour and a half to go to sleep. Ive never been the parent to "sleep train" because I can't stand hearing my baby cry. It's never been a problem to lay and cuddle until she falls asleep, until recently. She does have a lil brother now who's 8 months and this maybe started a couple months ago. She still has one nap throughout the day that last 1-3 hours. But I am losing my patience with her. I can't lay with her for that long waiting and begging and sometimes yelling at her to go to sleep every night. For example we can start at 830pm and she finally falls asleep at 10-1030pm. It's driving me nuts. I have things to do to prepare things for the next day. I work full time as well. I'm just exhausted. We have a routine set:bath/story/songs/talk about fav part of day/ massage and she usually knocks out. But now I'm at a wits end. Does anyone have any suggestions??