Trouble with in-laws
So tonight my husband went to his dads house to have dinner, i ended up staying home since i wasn’t feeling too great. I told him to take our daughter with him since I know my FIL loves to see her. So about an hour and a half they come back home and i ask him how dinner was. He says it was great! And that his grandma was there as well. He also mentioned that they gave our daughter those yogurt bites, which she is way too little to have!! She’s only 5.5mo and has just started out on purées. Told him that was a big no-no since 1. she can’t have it since she’s too little and 2. she’s super lactose intolerant. He apologized and said he didn’t know. Told him to just make sure he reads the packages next time and to make sure they never ever give her anything without our consent. Later on while I was putting my daughter down for bedtime I noticed something sticky on her paci. Thought to myself, that’s strange I wonder what it could be, maybe someone spilled something on it at dinner. Asked husband and come to find out his grandmother had dipped it in apple pie filling and shoved it in my LOs mouth!!!! I was super pissed to say the least, husband said he didn’t even notice until she did it a third time!!! He says i’m overreacting but I honestly don’t think I am. What should I even do about this situation? My daughter seems fine (thank god) but i know she can’t have that much sugar before she turns one and I have no idea what else was in the pie filling. Should I call our pediatrician or wait it out? I’m at a loss here. My husband and I have had arguments like this before, where something happens with our daughter when he’s with his family and I’m not around. He refuses to say no to them no matter what it is.