Unacceptable behavior as a father?
My SO is going through a lot with his job. Last night he said he wanted to visit his parents and talk to his dad about it. Around 10:30 I get a text saying “going to bed, goodnight”. No call, didn’t discuss he was going to sleep there. This morning I text and call him and no answer. I texted his parents asking if he’s coming home and this is unacceptable for a grown man and he should be home with his kid. No one answers me. 4 hours later he says he’s on his way home. This seems so disrespectful and it’s like he can just do whatever he wants, he doesn’t ask he just tells me. I am so sick of this and I’ve talked to him before that this isn’t acceptable and not how families work together. He is an only child and his only serious relationship was long term, so I feel like he has no idea how to be in a relationship, but after all the arguments we’ve had he should know by now it’s not ok to behave this way. He also never seems to care that his daughter is there, he just says hi to her and goes about his own business. Never puts her to bed, never gets her up or bathes or feeds her. I’m so tired of this and I am on the verge of a mental breakdown because of him. I’m sick of begging someone to want to be a part of our family.