Do you ask your mom, MIL, facebook mommy groups, Winnie, google, a specified book, etc?
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Pediatrician and Winnie.
I would prefer to get advice from my mom but she isn’t around anymore. Or my MIL, but she avoids giving me advice I think out of fear that she will overstep somewhere.
My mother in law... and my mom depending on what it is (she can get very naggy, so I filter for her)