To give or not to give?
We recently moved into a gated community, you need either a decal or stop at the front gate (who then call us) to enter. My husband wants to give a decal to his family so they can come and go as the like I would prefer not to. I’m not even giving it to my family. I really like the privacy and notice it would give us. Plus sometimes they (both mine and his) like to pop in this way they can’t and they won’t know if we’re home or not. We have a nice place now and I don’t want people constantly coming over, I have my kids and own things to tend to. If I tell them not to they either still do or take offense.