It has being a very rough year mostly a very rough few months. Me and my husband are currently on a break due to alot of arguing and misunderstandings. Which is obviously very upsetting and sad. Thank god for my mother I don’t know where would i be in this moment. My son got terribly sick had a fever last week and it turned out it was an ear infection, a week later he got fever again 4 times in... More
With holiday season and the year coming to an end DH has been getting invited to social events (he tells me about them but doesn’t ask me to join, which I’m a little hurt but it’s whatever since I’m pregnant). However, he’s been getting drunk and end up staying at a friends. We have a 9 month old and 5 weeks left till EDD. I told him if he’s out drinking when I go into labor I won’t be contacti... More
I have two kids I love so much that I would do anything for them including keeping the marriage. I think my husband has sth going on but I can't find the proof because he is very sneaky. He doesn't sleep till morning every night. Everytime he uses bathroom would be an hour with door locked. He is really paranoid. We r in the same house but we pretty much communicate with text and it'... More
I really think I’m like minor depressed. It’s just to a point that I don’t want to do nothing. And my husband makes it worst without realizing it. Well now he finally confides to me that he’s depressed and holding in his feelings, from work. His job is a very stressful job (he’s in the military). So I finally got him to talk bout it and pretty much he feels like he’s not doing as good as he wan... More
How to determine if you should work through it or get divorced. I take my vows seriously so I don’t just want to up and leave when it get rough. My husband and I have been together for almost 13 yrs and married for almost 10yrs. We have 7 children, it is a his,mine, and ours. Which the kids don’t know that and we don’t use the word step. My husband has adopted mine I plan on to adopt his when ... More
Warning.. a long post. My husband works in law enforcement. The first couple of years he would refuse to have one drink even at dinner during his work week. When we were dating this was his rule as well as after we got married - so marriage didn’t change a thing. This was just his rule and I respected his choice (even though I think the occasional drink with your significant other at dinner i... More
Hey so my baby is 7 months old. And my fiance and I tried having sex at like 3 months post birth and it hurt so we said we can try later but since then I have had very very little desire to do anything sexual. I am tired all the time, my fiance and I have many stressors out side of our relationship and we tend to argue a decent amount about different things(all healthy though) but when I'm ... More
My fiancé is an EXTREMELY picky eater. We have an almost 2 year old & I have two kids from my previous marriage. He basically only eats JUNK FOOD. Jack in the Box, Burger King, McDonalds, Little Caesars, Pizza Hut, etc. He will not eat home cooked meals, he can’t be happy with eggs & toast in the morning. He just will not eat it, if it is made at home he wants processed foods. Mashed po... More
Firstly is anyone else doing this? And how has it worked out so far? Now I’m talking about vegetarianism not full on veganism. Secondly, both S.O and my family thinks it’s ridiculous to raise our kids on that diet, I just ignore what my family says. However, SO is getting sucked into wanting to give our kids meat because his family. We agreed to raise them little to no junk/processed/fast foo... More
Lately (a lot) my husband is easily working my nerves. Lol. I’m trying real hard to remain in a place of gratitude for all that he does, BUT recently it’s just a lack of communication from him (which I try to over communicate since I’m OCD) and he has a man cold too 😳. I know I love him but seriously, some days it’s like DUDE get with the program. Lol. Anyone else feel this way sometimes???
My husband had an early day off work yesterday and he told me he was going to go drop off something to the cleaners and go pick up our daughter from daycare. Nothing out of the ordinary there. He then told me that a coworker bought this new Pokémon game and then didn’t like it so he just gave it to him. For free. He said he wanted him to pay like $30 but instead just gave it to him. I found the... More
Okay, so no offense to any dads out there. Y’all rock. But my partner is so laid back when it comes to our 8 month old that it worries me for when our new baby arrives at the end of February 2019. I’m constantly reading and educating myself on anything and everything. We never have co-slept, she doesn’t sleep in the car seat unless it’s in the car, she’s never slept with a blanket, I count how... More
My husband has been a stay at home husband for a few years now with me. We have 2 kids and for a long time now I haven’t been in the mood to have sex. Now I don’t know if it’s because I don’t have any friends, so I never go out or it could be because I see him 24/7. I need help :(
I am a pretty laid back person. My husband is high stress and has a temper. Everything is a big deal to him. We have a 4 year old and almost 2 year old. We both work full time and day-to-day life is stressful! My husband loses his temper at least once a day. Usually with me or just a general hissy fit (today it was because his computer wouldn’t work, last night my son and I were too lou... More
My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We had our first daughter together in 2016 and we are now expecting another beautiful baby girl this month. Usually we have no problem when it comes to being intimate and no issues during my first pregnancy but I am always in the mood and he doesn’t even want to touch me. I finally asked why and he explained it’s awkward and my belly is too big ... More
After a pretty stressful few weeks, we talked tonight about moving forward with separating and getting therapy. I'm hopeful, but honestly we've done therapy on and off for years so i think the most likely outcome is divorce. Does anyone have any stories of how they brought a relationship back from the brink and what happened?
I’m in my second trimester and I just don’t want to have sex at all. I want my husband’s hugs and kisses, but when he tried one step further I resisted so bad,not only sex but even some touch! I don’t know what’s wrong with me. My husband and I don’t hug very often. Most of the time we just sat in the room doing our own thing...quite spiritual. But recently I started to feel I have less and le... More
Lately I have been thinking about being a surrogate for a family who can’t conceive. I have a two year old and I am a stay at home mom. I brought it up with my boyfriend and he does not support it. What do you think? Is he right, wrong? I get where he is coming from to an extent but not fully.