Great father, bad husband.
Anyone else?? My husband is an amazing daddy to our little girl. I’m also an amazing mom. We just don’t get along with one another. Daughter is a year and a half. We pretty much go through a week or two every month where we aren’t nice to one another. He blames it on me. Example, just this morning he was leaving for work (we both work but he leaves earlier and I drop dd at daycare). He was kneeling down to give daughter a kiss and right before he did that I had handed her a strawberry piece. He got all mad at me and said that it’s not very sincere of me to feed her right before he kisses her goodbye. Then he stormed out of the house yelling that this was how I’ve been acting all week. It seems so petty but every day is like this. He gets very judgmental of me and how I take care of her. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I go through phases where I’m ready to leave him and then the tension dissolves and we’re good for another month. We’ve been together 15 years. I go to talk therapy and have encouraged him to come with me to couples counseling. He tells me I’m the one who needs it, not him. Help.